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Introduction
Lubricant is an indispensable companion for many gay men when it comes to enjoyable, safe and intense sex. Whether it’s anal sex, fisting, sex with toys or water play – the right personal lubricant can make all the difference. In this guide, we take a look at which types of personal lubricant are best suited to which sexual practices and what advantages and disadvantages they offer.
1. water-based personal lubricant: all-rounder with minor weaknesses
Water-based personal lubricant is a classic and versatile product. It is perfect for use with Sex toysas it does not attack silicone or latex materials. It is also easy to wash off and suitable for Oral sex as it is often tasteless. The disadvantage: it can dry out quickly during intensive or longer sessions and needs to be relubricated more often.
Advantages:
- Compatible with condoms and all toys
- Easily washable
- Ideal for oral sex
Disadvantages:
- Dries out faster
- Must be applied more frequently
Best suited for:
Oral sex, sex toys, shorter sessions
2. silicone-based lubricant: long-lasting and slippery
Silicone-based personal lubricant is the ultimate when it comes to long sessions goes. It is extremely long-lasting and slippery, making it perfect for Anal sex makes. As it does not dry out, you rarely need to relubricate. A particular advantage is that it does not lose its gliding properties even in water, which makes it ideal for Sex in the shower or in the whirlpool. However, it attacks silicone toys and can leave stains on textiles.
Advantages:
- Long-lasting, does not dry out
- Perfect for longer anal sex
- Waterproof, ideal for water games
Disadvantages:
- Not suitable for silicone toys
- Harder to wash off
Best suited for:
Long Sessions, Anal Sex, Sex in Water
3. oil-based lubricants: perfect for fisting and extreme practices
If you love fisting or long, intense sessions, then oil-based lubricant the right choice. It remains extremely slippery and does not dry out. Another advantage is that it is particularly skin-friendly and provides intensive care for the skin. The big disadvantage, however, is that it is not compatible with latex condoms and is difficult to remove from textiles and skin.
Advantages:
- Very long-lasting and extremely slippery
- Ideal for fisting and extreme practices
Disadvantages:
- Not condom-safe (with latex)
- Difficult to wash off, can leave stains
Best suited for:
Fisting, long sessions without condoms
4. hybrid personal lubricants: the best combination of both worlds?
Hybrid slip gels offer a mixture of water-based and silicone-based lubricants. They combine the slippery properties of silicone with the easy washability of water-based gels. They are generally latex and condom-safe, but are not always suitable for silicone toys. For longer sessions or playing with different toys, a hybrid personal lubricant is a very good choice.
Advantages:
- Long-lasting like silicone gel
- Easily washable
- Condom safe
Disadvantages:
- Not always compatible with silicone toys
Best suited for:
Long sessions, versatile sex practices, toys
5. sterile lubricant: for deep and medical play
Sterile lubricant is mainly used for medical practices such as Urethral Soundingurethral stimulation or deep fisting. It is germ-free and minimizes the risk of infection, making it ideal for practices that require particularly hygienic conditions. Although it is not intended for everyday use, it is a must-have for anyone who wants to delve into the depths of the kink world.
Advantages:
- Germ-free, perfect for medical and extreme games
- Ideal for urethral sounding and deep fisting
Disadvantages:
- Dries out quickly
- Not intended for normal use
Best suited for:
urethral sounding, medical games, deep fisting
Conclusion: Choosing the right personal lubricant makes all the difference
Not all personal lubricants are the same, and you should choose the right lubricant depending on your sexual practice and preferences. For short sessions and the use with toys water-based lubricant is ideal. Silicone-based personal lubricant on the other hand, is ideal for prolonged anal sex and water playwhile oil-based lubricant especially for fisting is unbeatable. Hybrid lubes offer a versatile solution for mixed requirements, while sterile lubes are the best choice for specialized practices.
Tip: Try out different personal lubricants to see which one suits you and your preferences. A good personal lubricant can take your sex experience from good to incredible!
